Poor Family Communication Encourage Unacceptable Behavior
Communication has been identified for people to know each others and for discussion about solution to settle a problem if occurring. A researcher was described that how about the relationship between each in family is depend on the patterns of communication they have. Family members utilize the patterns of their communication to organize themselves into the modes of behaviors.
A communication in family between the parents and children is generally accepted as one of the most crucial fact of interpersonal relationship and it also determined as an important key to understand the dynamics of underlying family relationship. Refer to many of famous family which researchers had made a research and examined, the result show us that less of family communication can bring to a delinquent activity, such as family with no cohesiveness, home broken, parental attitudes and single parent.
Family communication also has been identified as an important factor for understanding delinquency. A family research had found that self-reported delinquency among boys has effect the intimacy of the family communication and this can result to the delinquent acts in the family decreased. Some similar finding to support the fact regarding to the types of communication and its relationship to delinquency is that instrumental communication (such as discuss about the problem and find the solution together, future planning among the family members) was significantly related to lower level of delinquency, while the intimate communication (such as sharing the secret and feeling) was unrelated to the delinquent behaviors. Thus, conclusion of the importance of ‘intimate’ communication is ‘type’ of family communication which important for understanding the delinquency.
Pattern and ways of family communication also are important for us, as we are parents, to talk to our child. It is important for understanding such thing as decision making process, problem solution, cohesion, and the rules and roles that operate within the family systems. ‘Optimal family’, who were experiencing problem with their children, was more open and expressive when communicating. Parents need to be more sensitive and effective for communicating with their children to know the problems their children are facing to.
Communication in a family does not only help to find and to settle the children’s problems, but it also functions as a way to make the relationship between the parents and child more closely. Having good communication in the family allow any family becomes the happy family eventually. Family communication also can reunion the family members that having a conflict.
As you are parents of children especially teenagers, it is so important to know that family communication is vital and can prevent the unacceptable behaviors of your child to be raised. When there is no time to spend on communication when you are in the family, it is more chance that your teenagers keep themselves far away from you and turn into their friends who you do not know how about those and could they can lead your child to the bad ways such as to become addict person. This is why poor family communication encourages unacceptable behavior.
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