Phrases You Should and Should Not Say to Your Child
Do you ever said to your child about the good thing they had done? Or you just only tell them about the bad things they had? Keep in mind that your child has sensitive heart and feeling, they sad when you give them harsh voice. Only once time you tell them about the things they make you pride or you praise your kids, you bring them to the happiness.
Avoid using the bad phrases with your children; you can start on the road to rising more positive and self-confident in your child. However, if you never say things that edify or encourage our children, do not pull the feeling of your child to the bottom of abyss by some badly phrases. Below are the phrases you should and should not to speak to your child.
- “Just because I say so”: Every time your children give you some question like “Why?” do not give them answer “because I say”, “Do not ask me why”. Always give a reason why they should or should not do something that you say.
- “It does not matter what others think”: Tell your child that what others think may be important but, some time they should to ignore. Start from birth to build your child’s self-esteem is important to keep away them from too seriously what people think and let them confident in their own.
- “I was too busy to come and see you”: Do not let this word to your child. It means something you are doing is more important than your kids. Many children carry wounds inflicted by their parents who promised to do something and never followed through.
- “I won’t make that mistake again”: If you done something wrong and make your child sad, say “Sorry” to your child and tell them you will not do same like this anymore. And if your children do some thing on the wrong way, let them know they should not do it again.
- “You can not possibly do that”: Parents must to encourage the child to anything they want to be. Help your child to succeed in whatever they try. Do not discourage them from even trying by the word like “No way to success about that”
- “If only you could be more like your brother/sister”: Keep in mind that each child is an individual and should be respected and treated base on they are. Disparage your child by the phrases such as “Why you do not be as your brother?” will fall them into the deeply hurt and impress them that nothing good in their.
- “Wait until father/mother gets home”: This usually relates to discipline. Let your child to know that family is important then, they should to wait for another before something start like a dinner. But, you must to keep in time when you ask your child waiting you for start something together.
As well as the acting, phrases are also important to treat to your child on the right way.
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